Catc him -cheating on me....but I have NO PROOF

My husband is rich and smart and cheating on me....

but I have NO PROOF. I have not been able to catch him on the computer, or phone, or at her place. He covers his trail

When questioned,
He just tells me I am nuts and making the entire story up

I have used a detective but on the days and hours of hire my husband was at home.

Any suggestions how to catch him--I do not have a lot of money.

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Go with your gut - "My husband of years was acting strange.."
by: Elizabeth

My husband of years was acting strange. Not one person believed me when I said I thought he was having an affair. I could not catch him out.

There was no messages or calls on his phone (deleted) he told me I was paranoid and going crazy. I eventually thought I was.

After about 7 months I said I was leaving him. I said I couldn't prove anything but something wasn't right and I would have either killed myself or gone mad if I stay.

He stood by and watched a very intelligent,articulate women deteriortate and he continued to deny anything even when I was admitted to hospital.

He did not try and stop me leaving nor did he try and save our marriage. I asked him about a female he worked with,his reaction said it all.

I left, him still denying anything happened.I stopped talking to him for months. 7 months after we separated he admitted that he had been sleeping with her.

The part that hurts the most is that a person i thought loved me was prepared to let me go mad to protect this women. She is also married and has 3 children.

To date she hasn't left her husband. My ex and her are still friends and sleep together. I am sad but I am glad that i am away from him.They both deserve each other.
Its hard to leave if your not sure.."insecurities or if he really is cheating"
by: sun

Its hard to know if its your insecurities or if he really is cheating.

I would hate to leave a marriage.
Might be you.
by: Anonymous

It does not always mean he is cheating. Maybe you have issues from your past. Do not accuse him if you want to catch him.
Leave....."obviously don't trust him anyway "
by: Anonymous

Just leave him. You obviously don't trust him anyway so why stay? He is not acting like a faithful husband to you nor is he trying to prove to you that he is one.

It's not worth your money or your stress to catch him. There is a lot to be said about a woman's intuition.

Trust your instincts, leave him, and begin a new life without him!

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