Dumbass
by Danielle
(United States)
Hello, found this sight as a pissed off ex. I feel lucky on this site.
My ex didn't have sex with anyone else but I feel what he did was terrible. He was in a relationship with another girl while we were dating.
He wasn't sleeping with her but she knew me and him were breaking up before I did. Last weekend we were planning our wedding.
This weekend he told me that he "had feelings for" this other girl. I guessed who correctly. He then went on to tell me they've already talked and are both on the same page.
I feel as though he was just waiting for someone else to come around. I know this sounds juvenile but Facebook made this worse as well.
Within hours of our break up, he was "in a relationship" with her on Facebook. Before i had a chance to tell my friends we were over, they found out because he was dating someone else.
I understand that if he doesn't love me we shouldn't be together and I actually even feel better off without him but the fact that he handled all of this the way he did is sad because I expected so much more from him.
He was just a great guy. Luckily, i got the ring to pawn and will hopefully be taking a nice vacation with my girlfriends this summer because of it.
Good riddance to the ass. Also, I have already created a "my new boyfriend will have..." list. Its everything he didn't have that I need my next boyfriend to have.
Top of the list is "Taller than me" and then second is "older than me" (no immature asses anymore). Good Riddance!