Is My Husband Cheating? -"the only time she comes up to our house im always working..."

by Terri-Lee
(Nova Scotia)

I've been having a feeling that my husband has been cheating on me with some one he works with

My husband & i have been together for 5 years but only marred for 9 months, we have a 4 year old son together.

but for the past few months i've been having a feeling that my husband has been cheating on me with some one he works with.

He tells me that she wants to be friends with me because she doesn't really have a lot of girlfriends so i started to hang out with her some, she also has a 3 year old son and is marred. but the only time she comes up to our house im always working and by the time i get home shes gone.

My husband always tells me when shes coming to the house so its not like hes trying to hide it from me but one morning i found a text message on his phone from her saying "good morning babe, how was ur sleep" when i asked him about it he told me that she meant to send it to her husband.

I didn't buy it at all but just let it go, then just a few weeks a go i got a hold of his phone and looked at his text messages and i saw that he was telling her that he loves her and misses her.

I got really up set about this and he told me that it meant nothing and that there just really good friends and he tells all his good friends that he loves them.

I even talked talked to her about it and she told me that it meant nothing and that she told him about some thing she did at work so he said i love you...but i still feel like there is something going on between them.

I have dreams about it and when ever i'm alone that's all i can think about..its driving me nuts.

Please give me some advice.