No Street smarts -"I think she was trying to tell me, her platonic friend was more than just a friend"

by slim
(USA)

She told me I have no "street smarts". I think she was trying to tell me, her platonic friend was more than just a friend. more like a sex buddy. Here's the story, She had a friend over she said she was only friends with. She one of these women who are independant and woudl rather be alone than lose her freedom. The guy went ot her house and stayed until ~ 1100 pm. Then she texted me to ask if I was awake? I figure she must have felt guilty or to see what I would tolerate. I told her I was. she never returned the text, when I told her I was awake.

My burning question is how can tell if she was just having a friendly "deep" (her words) converastion with her friend or weather they had sex? she refuses to introduce me to her friend. She refuses to dissassociate herself from him. I am ready to leave but need to be sure I am making the right decsion.

Thanks